September 19, 2009

LRT Adventures.


Here's Dexter all excited about the day we're about to have on the train! I'm still working out the kinks for transporting him by bike, so baby and I are still in public transit mode on our outings. I did, however, put him in our chariot trailer thing and towed him behind me (on the Amsterdam) last weekend. Quick review:

Trailer was surprisingly light, barely felt it was there.

One must be careful with turning radius.

Baby looked safe, albeit sort of wedged with the bumper pad thing I bought for extra stability.

Looked like everything was perfectly sound until I went over bumpy roads (which are unavoidable here) AND I was riding incredibly slow. Like, somebody could have been briskly walking the same pace I was riding.

I can honestly say I gave it a try. If you want to wait until your kid is old enough to sit back there and play rock paper scissors with his sibling... then fine. Get a chariot and knock yourself out. I am impatient and I really think the thing is ugly. I am convinced now more than ever that a cargo bike is for me. My main hesitation is that there is no dealer in my city. The nearest I know about is a bakfiets in Vancouver or a nihola in Toronto. They are both expensive (I've sort of blown my bike budget with my road bike, the Pashley, and my many other bikes). I'm thinking Madsen is the solution... I believe one of you fine readers recommended these cargo bikes to me! Will keep you updated. If you guys have more tips on cargo bikes that are already on the continent and that will ship to Edmonton, I would be thankful for any leads.

Back to our Friday. We went on the train to meet a friend for lunch downtown. I've always been telling people that Dexter is super easy to take care of. I am a little concerned about what's in store after seeing my friend's 1 year and 4 month old kid. The mobility... is terrifying. This kid is running around and eating naan bread and swatting at the mango pudding and demanding water from the glass because it's cooler than drinking it out of his straw and water bottle. Intense. Dexter takes 20 minutes just to roll over. On the other hand, the older kid is way more interactive for longer periods of time. And the kid can also FEED HIMSELF. Wow!




My friend Connie wanted to come back to my place to check out the pad (we moved here just over a year ago) so we loaded the kids up in their strollers and headed to the train to go back to the bungalow. While waiting on the platform I asked her if people ever failed to vacate the priority seating on the train. She said most of the time people get out of the way so she can park the stroller and sit down with her baby. Just after telling her that much of the time people DON'T pay Dexter and me this courtesy, we get on the train and the couple sitting in the priority seating move over so she can sit down and park her stroller. Oh the irony! On my side there were these two louts parked on the bench, oblivious to what is happening even after I roll Dexter past them and park the stroller right beside them. There they are. Just sitting there with their legs spread out so wide. Using "fuck" as every second word in their dialogue. Listening to rap out loud on their cell phone(s). "This is so fucking hard!" says the guy on the left. "Put on some Tupac," the other replies. One word. DOUCHEBAGS.

Just look closely at their expressions!




SO PAINFUL. I got Connie to photograph the situation for your entertainment. If any of you follow me on Twitter you probably caught these images yesterday, and although they are bad photographs since the train was moving and they aren't in focus... you can perhaps relate just a little to the lack of chivalry we experienced. Barf.

Anyway, back at the bungalow Connie takes another picture of me and baby.





And she also caught me playing the 6-7 chord progression I know on the ukelele.





We actually took the train out again. This time I was meeting Raffaella and Lisa for some snacks, dinner, what-have-you. The girls are contemplating their gelato choices while I click away with the iPhone.




My shoes are the blue ones. Lisa's are the salmon.




So it was a food, friend, and train filled day. Sure, we encountered some losers. But such is life:) Dexter and I keep on with the walking/rolling. The more I walk, the better my old clothes fit!

12 comments:

m e l i g r o s a said...

what lame-tards. Agh bad manners are just such a turn off, and they are everywhere...
Nevermind them, you look great and whatever you are doing (you sure it's only walking?!) you look fab ;)
cute post!gelato time with the girlfriends, but Dexter steals the show, he is such a cutie and sooo photogenic <3
xo.meli

Sox said...

Dexter is adorable, but you already know that!
The louts are amusing- I suspect they would quickly lose their "I'm so superior" expression if they knew the cycling world was smiling at their ego.

MamaVee said...

age 1-3 are my fav years. Cute, able to do things on their own, talk etc. Tuber who was a fairly easy baby was a really easy toddler. We happily went places until he turned three. now as long as there is food and we don't stay too long he's good but he's becoming non compliant more often. Girlpie who was a hard baby was a sweet toddler in public as she stayed close to me. she and I went out a lot!!

Trisha said...

Your train commentary and pictures cracked me up. I've met those guys and they're definitely not the type to cede priority seating! Adorable pics of you, Dexter and shoes. :)

Freth :-p said...

What was it you were playing on the Uke? ... besides chord progressions ...
This was a fun dialog!

Rebecca said...

Time passes so fast with kids' development. Almost by the time you research, price and acquire a cargo bike, your beautiful baby will be sitting up and able to ride in a kid's bike seat! My 2 year old was in one at 8 months, in the smallest available kid's helmet which she still wears. My 5 year old was off training wheels by age 3 1/2 and can now do short trips with us. It all works out eventually with a bit of juggling, a bit of patience and a bit of compromise.

miss sarah said...

Freth,

I think I was just playing various of C, G7, Dm, Em, Am... over and over again. It's not even a song:( But, it does sound cute!

miss sarah said...

Hi Rebecca,

Yeah, I'm still planning on getting a little bobike for the Pashley and that will be good for when I just want to zip out with the two of us. I think cargo bike is good for future planning when I have baby 2. Then I can take my new newborn, and Dexter, and maybe even the dog too! If I only had to wait 7-8ish months for Dexter I could live with it, but if another baby and taking yet another hiatus. Ugh.

I also think it would be great to have a cargo bike so I can roll up to Dexter's school with his gear and drop him off. Yeah!

Isn't being a mom the best?

S*

Dottie said...

Dexter is getting so big. He looks really good with an orange background :) The ukulele and shoe pictures are really cute. And those guys are losers.

I'm excited about you visiting Chicago. Will you be staying downtown or in one of the neighborhoods? I'll get a list together of place I think you'd like.

Laura said...

I love your blog sweetie and I too would love a carefree and picnic wedding. Can you explain what's a guys fascination with football to me? =)

LPendzich said...

you're lucky those boys didn't offer you priority seating... I wouldn't touch those seats with any of my nice clothes.

sara said...

Gotta just say how much we love our bakfiets. Yeah, I do know it is expensive but we haven't regretted that purchase one bit and it can grow with you and your family.... However, we do have friends who have a Madsen and they are big fans.

We have three kids and two cargo bikes: a bakfiets & an xtra & we use both constantly. The crazy thing is that I have now started eyeing triples http://co-motion.com/images/tandem_bikes/hi_res/periscopetrident.jpg
Is a bike intervention necessary?