
Ah, the final installment of Miss Sarah's birthday includes a BBQ with my family.
I wore this creamy pastel polka-dot dress. I put it in a "take to the tailor" bag in the spring, hoping to hem it for the coming summer. Then I forgot all about it so I just wore it in its long-ish capacity. Upon putting it on I also remembered I once wore this while riding the road bike. As a result (curse the lack of fenders, and Amsterdam was broken that summer) there are a few tiny mud spatters on it that have not come out. They're not that noticeable.
Before we left the bungalow I opened a present from Raffaella.
It was a zombie book!

Got to my parents' place and my niece Keira was there.

We took some family photos. My mom requires a little album she can whip out to show relatives when she visits Hong Kong. That way everybody can comment on who has aged and who has gained weight. Seriously!
It's a very blunt culture. Sounds rude to us but over there it's basically as common as talking about the weather.

Daddy's garden.

Grand kids love to feed the fish with Grandpa Chan.

Another view of the pond, in different light.

As usual we were encouraged to eat SO MUCH FOOD. Since my dad grew up very poor he is overly concerned that people do not go hungry. In essence there is some manner of overcompensation going on because he now puts the pressure on to be overly full. You know that scene in Gone With The Wind where Miss Scarlett holds up a carrot to the sky and vows never to be hungry again? That's my dad.
That being said, I'm glad I grew up with his insistence on eating and his hosting skills. I have gone to homes before where people will serve me half a portion because I am smaller than Don. In these cases I go hungry and that is a huge no-no where I come from.
I figure these homes just might not understand that I can eat an adult portion. I always make sure to have a granola bar in my purse and in such an event I will secretly eat it. I also have a fast metabolism which I have to feed or else I get those hunger headaches.
My parents say my metabolism is fast because being stubborn and temperamental takes a lot of energy.
I think they're just mistaking me for my brother :)
Anyway.
There were so many leftovers that we had to pack up to-go containers so that BBQ could be enjoyed today and perhaps tomorrow (my dad is obsessed with these take-out containers, I know they're evil).
Friends did some illustrations. The little squiggle on the left is supposed to be a dragon.

This "dragon" breathes fire.

Then we lit some candles and ate the cake that Leanne made me. From scratch! With Kerstin's baking chocolate.

Turning 30 is awesome. People treat you, and tell you they are glad you are alive.
I suppose I should also thank my mom for deciding to have me. Thanks, mom!
It was a very happy birthday weekend.
14 comments:
Miss Sarah, you are so adorable. Happy Birthday! Enjoy your 30s! Thanks for documenting it all here for us.
P.S. I'm moving to Orlando, Florida (I live in Philadelphia) and I am fully determined to be the same day-to-day, skirt-wearing, grocery-store-going, date-night-attending bicycle rider there that I am here. It won't be as easy there, I'm sure, but it WILL happen. Thanks for providing inspiration. =)
Cheers.
Happy Birthday!!! 30 seems like a piece of cake - pardon the pun, ha! - now that 35 is around the corner.
I can relate to your dad's relationship with food. My fiance's father is the same way and his cabinets and fridge are always stuffed with food. Every time I'm over there I have to do a fridge clean out to toss all the stuff that is spoiling faster than he can eat it.
Happy Birthday Miss Sarah! Love love love your blog!
Miss Minty - Thanks! I'm glad the inane details of my life don't bore you:) If I can ride up here in oil country? You can ride ANYWHERE. I'm sure of it.
dag - one thing dad is really good at (at least) is doing tasty things with leftovers. So at least nothing goes to waste.
Kesha - Thanks for reading! I'm glad you enjoy the chronicles of miss sarah:)
Happy Birthday!! You looked stunning! I wish you many many more happy years ahead :)
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Happy Birthday!
I enjoy reading your adventures.
From one bday-bike-blogger to another.
happy birthday!
gosh, don't all chinese parents try to stuff you? i have older relatives from that generation who left china in the 70s. i guess when you grow up having rice rations you take every opportunity to eat and celebrate. really though, it's mostly a cultural thing. why else would chinese wedding banquets have 9 courses?? how are you supposed to eat that while wearing a wedding dress?
ridonkulus - I KNOW! And have you seen the Chinese wedding dresses? I'm talking the 1 piece long ones with no room to hide. Such high expectations they have of us.
Thank you for the visual of your Dad holding a carrot to the sky and quoting 'Gone With The Wind'! It gave me a chuckle. Happy Birthday!
Are you sure that you're thirty? I wanna see some ID. You don't look a day over 24 ;)
Fabulous looking cake!
Congratulations!!
And it is wonderful to see such lovely photos of your parents. :)
Beautiful blog, beautiful family. You are an inspiration.
You look fabulous. You are fabulous. So is your family. They must be thrilled to have you.
Ilona, Judy, Freth, Yoli, Justine - Thanks! I am a middle child and was sorely neglected for many years. It's nice to be appreciated now:)
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